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Goal Setting for 2013: Living The Music Instead of the Light Show

December 10, 2012 10 Comments

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The following is an amazing guest post from a fellow personal finance blogger. While I am on vacation let my blogger friends run the show here.

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Some friends handed me the spur-of-the-moment opportunity to see the classic rock band Rush in concert a few weeks ago. At about 11 AM, friends called and asked if I wanted to tag along that same night. After politely explaining that I’m not a huge Rush fan, I recommended someone else should use that ticket. When they told me that they didn’t know any other huge fans, I jumped on board for a three hour ride to Dallas.

I’m glad I did. This concert was a huge inspiration for me and my 2013 goals.

Goal Setting: 2013 Style

I’ve been thinking a lot lately about what I want out of 2013. 2012 was a year of transition for me (new podcast, upgraded website, a honed focus on where I want our FFA brand to go), so it shouldn’t be surprising that this was on my mind when we entered the arena.

The stage was incredible. Rush spent a ton of time on set construction and paid great attention to the light show. There was swirling fog, lots of color and mind-bending videos in the background (looking around, it appeared lots of the people there had done some serious…er….”mind bending” around 1978 or so). Not only did Rush bring American Airlines Arena alive with music, but all of this “extra” imagery and light enhanced the show.

But that didn’t sell me on Rush. What sold was the fact that these three veteran musicians (who must be around 70 years old now), clearly loved being on stage singing, playing drums, guitar and keyboard.

Being in the financial world, I thought to myself, “What does this have to do with money?”

Initially, the answer was (of course) a big, fat “nothing.” But then it clicked: there was something awesome about this show, and it wasn’t the lights. It was the band’s love of the music that made this show hum for me. These weren’t three old men hanging on to past wins. This was a celebration of audio and the hundreds of songs they’d created, but they were still creating that night, right there, on the stage.

The music mesmerized people in the audience. Some danced. Others swayed. I saw some of the best air guitar and drums I’ve ever witnessed at a rock concert.

The Planning A-Ha Moment

I thought to myself, “What would happen if we eliminated one part of the show?”

That’s when I realized: the lights and effects were clearly secondary. The key to success in the show? The music. Rush’s success playing music made me realize why so many people fail:

Most people focus first on the light show, not on the guitar, keyboard, vocals and drums.

Let’s face it: successful money management and practicing any instrument both FEEL like work. I have friends that play guitar, and the good players’ callouses are evidence that they’ve invested hundreds (maybe even thousands) of hours earning their way toward the stage. The fact that people are moved by Rush’s craft isn’t a mistake. They brought people around me to the point of tears because of that hard work.

By contrast, a light show isn’t hard work. It’s simple. Plug it in and watch the result. So are nice cars, expensive parties and exotic gifts.

Creating a light show FIRST before perfecting your income stream is a trap.

My friends are like everyone else: they’re generally visual beasts and I’m sure they love a great light show. I’ll tell you now that only trying to have “a great light show” in life is a short cut you should avoid.

What am I talking about?

I mean specifically focusing on “showing off” by acquiring nice cars, expensive clothing, great parties and exotic gifts. Those are all the “light show” of your life. They visually show everyone just how great your music is….but sadly, in many cases, what I saw as a financial advisor was that there wasn’t any real music. Or if there is, the music isn’t good, and can’t keep the light show going for very long.

Your Goal Setting For 2013

Focus first on your music. How will you improve your income? What do you need to learn and apply to save money more quickly? What strategies should you use to get out of debt? …then dream about the light show. What will you purchase in 2013? Where will you travel? What baubles will make you giggle?

That’s the key to success in 2013.

In my thoughts about next year, a big question I’m asking myself is: how do I create great music with my financial picture? If I can make next year the 12 month period where I step up my “guitar” practice, the “light show” experiences will become sustainable.

So for me, next year isn’t about trips, parties or extravagance. Do I want those things? Sure. But I want to build my music first.

Readers, What’s on your mind for 2013?

About the Author – Joe Saul-Sehy, AKA “AverageJoe,” is co-owner (with TheOtherGuy) of the aptly named Average Joe’s Money Blog. When he isn’t reading One Cent at a Time, he’s playing board games, figuring how to get 17 year old twins through college, and asking Siri whether she loves him. Siri remains non-committal.

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  1. [email protected] Living Debt Free Rocks! says

    December 10, 2012 at 1:58 PM

    As a blogger who is also a musician/singer-songwriter I really appreciated this post and your use of music as an analogy for how to pursue one’s financial endeavours! Too often many of us try to accomplish so many goals at once. I’ve learned that I perform best when I zone in on just a couple of goals, usually one in fact and proceed to beat it out of the park.

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    • SB says

      December 11, 2012 at 9:11 AM

      As they say, our lives are shaped by the choices we make. There could be a number of goals to fulfill but wise only pick the most important ones.

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    • AverageJoe says

      December 11, 2012 at 10:07 AM

      Thanks, K.K. It’s true. You’ll never get great at the guitar if you don’t focus.

      Reply
  2. Savvy Scot says

    December 11, 2012 at 9:23 AM

    I absolutely LOVE Rush… I saw them live in Glasgow (Scotland) about 4 years ago!

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    • AverageJoe says

      December 11, 2012 at 10:05 AM

      I’ll bet you play a mean air guitar, SS!

      Reply
    • SB says

      December 11, 2012 at 11:47 AM

      And frankly I heard about the band after reading Joe’s submission last week.

      Reply
      • AverageJoe says

        December 12, 2012 at 5:31 PM

        No way, SB! Rush? You get a couple tattoos and grow your hair long, and you’re halfway there. Then just learn some air guitar or drums and you’re ready for the concert.

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        • SB says

          December 13, 2012 at 12:59 AM

          Now, RUSH…here I come

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  3. Harry says

    December 14, 2012 at 5:21 PM

    Great advice on goal setting!

    You may want to check out http://www.GoalsOnTrack.com/, a very nicely built web app designed for tracking goals, habits, and todo lists, and supports time tracking too. It’s clear, focused, easy to navigate, and most of all, really works!

    Reply

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